Continuous Binding of a Family

Due to the effect of fast changing lifestyle in the society today, most of the common problems which arises in the family is the relationship inside the home. It seems that some family today cannot continue their close relationship or their family binding. It is because of the different where about each family member is engage in.

Parents were busy in their works in order to earn money to support the family. Children were busy with their studies and going out with their peer. They cannot even share or talk together because of the busy and hectic schedule which everyone is doing. Here started the breaking down of the close relationship inside the family.

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Parents, it is but our obligation to know and to monitor our children. As we know that they are our responsibility and we are the very first who is accountable for them. Despite how busy we are and how hectic our schedule would be, we should give time for them. A time to talk to them, about their studies, their where about, and their concerns. Let’s always put in mind that this is the only time that we can get closer to them.

We just never know that sometimes our children have problems and they need our help. Financial support is not only the answer to all of their problems. They have problems that need our support, our advices and even our hug and comfort. There are times that even though how hard their problem is, they will not bother us because they feel that we are too busy and they will not disturb us. We should be the first to talk to them in order that they will open their problems to us.

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Our children need our guidance. Though they are mature enough but still they need guidance because they are just starting to tackle life’s difficulties which we had already gone through. They may have their own ideas but as children they still need our opinion. You can guide them in the right path if you do your duty as a parent to your children. Through this, your relationship will grow closer and firm. Every time your children needs help, they would come to you for guidance because they now that you are the right counselor for them.

Are you still giving more time to your children? Do you give them a time everyday though how hectic your schedule is? Are you still giving them guidance though they are old enough to depend on you? Continue that binding of the relationship which you have started. Continue to do your obligation as a parent. Parenting is a special and valuable duty, we must treasure it.